#Treat

Good food will always remain a reason to revisit a restaurant . We humans end up going to the same place and ordering the same food most times is not because we are scared to experiment but because we like comfort food at times . We know some places wont let us down and that we can count on them and one such pace is Treat , a north Indian restaurant located on 80 feet road Indiranagar which is easily missed . I know this place over 15 years and still going strong , now what would you call that ?

When we at work want to eat happy food , this is the place we head to. Courteous staff , good service and great food 🙂 . We ordered for Dal Fry , Steamed rice (not in pic ) and chicken kalmi kabab along with tandoori khoombh (mushroom) . Please dont miss trying the pickled onions and chilly chutney as accompaniments served . We cleaned the plate in flat 15 minutes and stepped out of the place . Tandoori chicken , biriyani are my favourites in this joint too ..

Its an Aye from me , so please do visit and try . Thank me in your heart and I will receive the blessings 🙂 .

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Address :3047, HAL 2nd Stage, 80 Feet Road, Indiranagar, Bangalore

Contact Numbers :080 25253902 or 080 25282137

 

#masseuse

I like spa’s , a way to detangle my tired soul. After a hectic event schedule I decided to pamper myself and what better way than a good massage . So I fixed an appointment with the goldmine spa (oh yes! they are expensive hence I named them that :)) I went there promptly a little before time but my masseuse hadn’t reached , I waited patiently and she arrived 15 minutes later than the stipulated time all huffing and puffing cursing the Bangalore traffic .

She was a teeny girl dressed in her uniform .I asked for deep tissue , she led me to the designated room and started to work her magic , wait! did I say magic ? She tore me apart  , I felt like I was in a wrestling ring or was it like a piece of cloth that was washed on a stone .. I pleaded her to let go of me and she said madam if you want to relax then dont ask for me , you will relax once you are home now allow me to do my work . I cursed my stars and decided to talk to her instead of squeaking so that my attention is digressed from the ordeal 🙂

She began .. She had so many stories , it was then I realised I had no problems 🙂 .. I assumed my life is a roller coaster ride , I felt I had problems  until I met her .. I realised all our problems are big for us but what she had to reveal was beyond something I can fathom . She dealt with strangers day in and out unlike us for starters . Random men come for massages and she has to deal with them . She said once there was an Arab who came in and while she massaged him he opened his phone and started watching porn . She requested him to stop it but he wouldn’t budge .

Another time there was this guy who was newly married and decided to discuss his penis size with her and shared story about how his wife was unable to satisfy him. She told me how she squirmed as he made her very uncomfortable that tears rolled down as he asked her about sexual preference and her sex life .

And this one time a married woman asked her for a happy ending , she explained to me how she froze and decided to walk out ..and the ultimate was an agent who refers clients to the spa following her and the Arab client to the room and offering her 10 k for a “special massage”. She threatened him of dire consequences and shooes him away . Many many more stories that has made her strong as a woman . She has the right to walk away from a client who demands beyond her role and that is a boon for her . She says people call her a “rowdy” because she voices her concern loud and clear .

My mind started chattering to me , she has so many things to face and fight each day . Every client is a surprise and she braves it with a smile on her face and hence there is so much to learn from this woman. So many times in life we inflate the smallest of problems and create a hue and cry , she has no option but live with it so she finds the positive and lives with it. Any place she goes she will face the same according to her as the profession she chose is a one like that . She has a choice to leave or live and she chose the latter .We can see the negative or a positive in a problem , it can put us down or make us strong and the choice is entirely ours ..

She finished her work on me , I thanked her and left .. I learnt a lot beyond physical relaxation .. I thanked her for enlightening me as a human .. Life teaches always and we can learn only if we want to 🙂

 

 

#HotelChalukya

My dad has taken me there as a kid , I have visited this place several times years ago and forgotten in this hustle bustle of the city. Who will travel from Indiranagar to race corse road for a dosa? This went on till this morning when after a good run at Cubbon park a craving for some yummy dosa popped in and for some unknown reasons Hotel Chalukya flashed as the only option.

Located on race course road  its a place one must visit for some yummy dosa and chutney . It was going almost full around 8 am and we listed our orders. One plate idli, ondu plate idli vada, one khara bath , one masala dosa (without red chutney ) and after some thought a kesari bath (yes we could have said chow chow  bath but this was ordered in instalments ) and coffees .

The idlis reached the table first . It was soft, yummy and the chutney was delicious . In this era of watery , runny chutney this was a welcome change and with no repeated request . The sambhar was nice too . The dosa was crispy which means it made those criiiisssssppppppp noises and the potato well done . I believe its an art to make good dosas however simple that sounds . The khara bath was a simple no fancy one and frankly nothing much to say about it . Finally the kesari bath was yummilicious . Not dripped in ghee , not excessively sweet , right amount of sugar , the perfect amount of ghee and this was one of the best i have tasted .

Came out happy , smiling and content and with the feeling that glad some things have maintained its charm in my city. Old is Gold they say and this place just prove us right . Its an aye! from me . If you have not been there being in Bangalore then please do visit once and if you are a Bangalorean and haven’t been there for years (like me) then please do the honours . Basically you have no choice left but visit them 🙂

The price for all the above item was approx : 360 Rs which is economical in my opinion considering the kind of prices i have been doling out

Address: No 44, Race Course Road, Near Basaveshwara Circle, Bengaluru, Karnataka 560001
Phone:080 2226 6866
http://www.hotelchalukya.com

#HerSignal

She got off an auto at the traffic signal , looked around and stepped on to the footpath trying to make eye contact with that one person . She was dressed beautifully ,completely draped in a maroon saree with a yellow border . The saree pleats tucked way below her belly button , a Bindi adorned her forehead , a pair of earrings that added elegance to her face. A string of jasmine on her hair and gold bangles complimented  her hands ..

I looked at her but she wasn’t interested in me and looked away . Since I felt ignored I kept watching , isn’t it human to do things which we are not supposed to? 🙂

She piqued my curiosity. She rummaged for her saree pallu , secured it and walked against the direction of traffic in the look out for that someone . She smiled yet didn’t smile , she looked yet didn’t look , she was getting fidgety yet remained calm .
She found a place to plonk on the footpath facing the traffic and started doing things to gain attention like pulling her saree up and adjusting , checking herself out and in between stealing glances at the onlookers .
My mind(The monkey) snapped out and was thinking what would have driven her to do what she is doing , was she right ? Was it right at all? Not before being shunned for the thought and I found the answer .  The Monkey told me that everyone has their own story , it’s unfair to judge them . I don’t know what circumstances drove her to do what she is doing  . I don’t know her reasons for choosing a life she is living  . My mind snapped back to reality before it said whatever she does is her choice and the other persons ofcourse and it chided me that I have no role to play in the transaction . I whirled back to reality along with the signal turning green  ,wished her luck inside my head and vroomed away .. On my way to my home , towards my life .
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#lazysuzy

This cute little outlet on the corner of 80 feet road Indiranagar intrigued me .Oh boy! i love bright colours and the name is so inviting to just walk in and plonk myself and gobble up some food .. Yet! I didn’t find time or reason to go and it kept teasing me overtime I drove past that road . One fine day! few cookies and macaroons land on my desk thanks to a dear friend and I was all reasons to visit them.

It was a rainy evening , the place was so welcoming . Yellows and blues , so refreshing ain’t it? Simple furniture , surrounded by breads , cookies and pastries . A simple one pager menu and the entire place was at my disposal thanks to the rains 🙂

A simple menu is always welcome as I am not confused what to order. I chose to stick to simple food as it was dinner and I prefer it super light . It was a veg wrap for me and a chicken wrap for my friend . And one macaroon  for meeeeee entirely. The macaroons here are to die for , they make me happy in simple words.

The wrap was nice , light and simple . The service was lovely .. I also picked one loaf of their wheat bread home which was nice too.. In short This is an Aye! Please don’t forget the macaroon ..

Address : 36, 80 Feet Road, Indiranagar, Bangalore. Contact Number :080 49653565

 ‪#‎TheWatchShop‬

A quaint little watch shop in Indiranagar is the go to place for getting my watch repaired from over a decade . There is Some comfort , I like them . No jazz , no unwanted talk and empty most times . I walk in with my quota of watches , oh yes! I accumulate watches and then fix them 😉
I went and handed over all my watches and said “cell” please . He picked them up and got busy fixing them behind the counter and I had nothing to do so rummaging through my thoughts , wondering how boring his life is , wondering how he must be whiling away time that too from over a decade.. Etc etc
Just then a family walks in a father , mother , 3 daughters and 2 son- in-laws and this was my assumption looking at them interact .. Then I realised I was right just that one was son- in- law to be . Basically uncle brought him into the shop and said buy the watch you want and the guy was embarrassed . He kept trying to bail himself out but aunty and uncle coaxing him to select . I see him scan the watches for a moment and another moment ask his fiancée to select . It was a mammoth task for her , she was so coy and kept looking around . The guy finally was cornered by the MIL and FIL and forced to select while the elder son in law who was on a call outside barges in and selects watches in a jiffy . Every watch the guy selects the uncle makes sarcastic comments . Oh! That dial is big , oh that’s like a liquor bottle ad et al . Meanwhile the bride to be spots a watch and shows her brother in law who brushes her aside and says no gold! Che! She quips and hangs her head down . Finally the elder son – in – law takes the call , selects the watch and they tie it to his wrist and they walk out while the uncle is at the counter to pay . He grins and Tells the shop owner my future son- in- law , before marriage gift smile emoticon .. He bargains gets discount and walks out . One happy family smiling , chattering away faded into the streets .
My entertainment stopped I whined , again 2 young boys walk in may be in their teens . This one boy wants to buy a “chain watch” for his girl friend . He is busy scanning the women’s counter , while his friend commenting . He has a budget but doesn’t want to reveal .. They are smiling , giggling meanwhile calls his GF and says what did you say you want and she says chain watch . He scratches his head and again scans at the price tags . Chooses one and realises that is way beyond his budget and decides to leave along with his friend . Not before saying we will explore other shops . I say mental bye and wish them luck .
Then another man who is talking endlessly , breathlessly and convincing the shop keeper that the watch is genuine and so is his ID card . He gives his duplicate ID card and mentions Rado and says call me tomorrow and escapes ..
I then realised he actually has an interesting soap life . People walking in from different walks of life , talking , arguing , laughing , complaining and he chooses to be blank as a choice as he has acclimatised to the environment .
Just then he walks up to me , hands over my watches , I pay up and walk out smiling .748e06d4005488e00ce109ac0fc67728Pic Courtesy- Google

#Granted

I am an allergy rhinitis victim , i suffer almost every day .. I feel suffocated on most days .. I struggle to breathe on so many day and nights . It used to irritate me immensely as a teenager and it still does. I still hate this feeling as much as I hated it ages ago. I still suffer the same way I used to. I have seen so many people come and go out of my life and I have seen how their perception of my health changed . I used to dread going to the doctor alone, I used to pity myself al the times but things changed this allergy has taught me a BIG Lesson and I will remain eternally thankful to it for teaching me that :

Nothing is constant , not love , not care not even sympathy 🙂 . It also taught me everyday is a new day , just because i was nice yesterday it doesn’t mean I don’t have to be nice today.

There was a time when people would rush and buy me medicines, would call and offer help,offer to make food, advise me to take care , make me feel good and gradually I realised the same people started looking through me , I was labelled a patient , sealed my fate and moved on with their chores . I was hurt, I wanted the same attention , I am unwell I said but it fell on deaf ears. I realised my battle is mine ..

It took a while for me to realise that it was never a deliberate attempt but its only human to take things for granted , how many times can anyone do the same thing? they did it the last time and then again . I realised that no one or nothing is constant . My suffering will remain with me, my health is my priority not anyone else’s .Intensity of my suffering has not changed but yes intensity of how others treat me changed..

Something struck me today and I wanted to pen this down. Its only us who has to be responsible for ourselves and we should never take ourselves for granted . I also learnt that over a period of time we learn to live with what we have  , its just a matter of time .. Everything and everyone has a lesson to part with, we have to just listen ..

Achoooo! sorry that was a sneeze 🙂

#ASK

Asking for help : while I was walking one morning I saw these creepers and felt they were asking for help, extending their hand so that someone could hold it and give them direction .. It made me think .. In life all we need to do most times is “ask for help” but our egos are so BIG that we do not want to call out ..we have all the reasons why we shouldn’t ask for help ..
In my opinion asking for help only helps us learn and grow in the right direction .. Asking for anything whole heartedly only ensures that the universe brings it to us .. I believe asking is learning , winning , fulfilment. Asking is ensuring there is no regret in the future that we didn’t ASK 🙂

It’s ok to be weak at times .. It’s ok not to know the answer to some questions  despite asking and it’s only Normal to be stuck at times .. 

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Let’s extend hands and Seek for help for the answer is waiting for us