Awkward Silence? I am Not So Sure

gazing at the sky

Whoever came up with the phrase “awkward silence” was probably not doing inner work.

Not judging—I believed in it too. I have used the phrase many times.

But today, I see it differently.

Silence might actually be what we need most.
To heal. To integrate. To learn.

At some point, words just become noise.

If we can stay with silence it can take us somewhere deeper.

How?

When we are silent, we start to:

  • listen to our own mind’s chatter
  • notice what we’re feeling
  • think a little more clearly

And I’m starting to feel that words can sometimes be a way of giving away our power.

We often talk when we are uncomfortable.
Instead of sitting with a feeling, we explain it, repeat it, soften it with more words.

It feels good in the moment.
But does it really change anything?

We can glorify ourselves through words.
But that doesn’t always move us forward.

I am beginning to see that a lot of what we are looking for is already within us.

We are like these powerful systems and yet we look outside for answers, or even fear what’s being built outside(AI).

But what if the real intelligence we need to understand,is already here?

What if it’s just buried under all the noise?

Maybe we don’t need more input.
Maybe we need more silence.

Want to know more?

Stay quiet for a bit and listen.

Ssshhhh…

Love and Light

I Thought Awareness Was Enough

Standing at Kashi Viswanath temple in Varanasi, overlooking the crowd and temples
Standing at Kashi Viswanath temple in Varanasi, overlooking the crowd and temple. Pic Credit- Pandit Ji

I used to think awareness was everything.

I could read a room.
I could sense what was happening.
I could understand situations quickly.

And I believed that meant I was aware.

Many people say awareness is the first step.
But I am starting to wonder.. what if we stop there?

What if we just keep watching?

Because that’s what I did.

I saw things clearly, but I didn’t move.
I stayed in the same place, almost admiring the awareness.

Awareness is powerful.
But what are we doing with it?

If nothing changes, then what is it really giving us?

Action is life. Movement is nature.

If we only observe, we can become spectators in our own lives.
And maybe that’s a choice.

But if we want to move forward, awareness alone isn’t enough.

The question I find myself asking now is:

I can see all of this clearly.
Now what am I going to do about it?

Do I sit with it, think about it, stay where I am…
or do I take the next uncomfortable step?

Because change isn’t easy.

It feels like walking through fire.
And most of the time, I would rather avoid it or just stand in the rain and wait.

But for how long?

Until the fire reaches me?
Or the rain slowly wears me down?

It sounds dramatic when I say it like this.
But isn’t that what we do?

I often wonder why it’s so hard to stay with discomfort.

Because sometimes I know what needs to be done.

And yet, I still find it hard to just be with it.

Love and Light

Bindu

Life happens, you like it or not

Life happens, you like it or not

You like it or not it is yours and for you to live,

Things will change and they are meant to, you like it or not.

Live in the present,
Soak in the space around, enjoy the very moment,
Devour the food in front of you,
Laugh with the loved one,
Listen to the person across the table,
Be involved in the meeting or classroom,
Hug someone completely, enjoy the moment like it is the last because it is!

The moment right now is Unique,
We cannot recreate it,
Every moment is a gift-wrapped for us with love from the creator,
You like it or not it is for you to unwrap.
We can choose to look away, look behind or look ahead but the moment is still here,
The moment is yours and for you to live.

It’s not anyone’s loss that you didn’t enjoy the moment but yours,
You can wallow all that you want on what was done or said or happened,
You can regret what didn’t happen or happened,
You can pine for what you don’t deserve,
You can chase for what you don’t want,
For life is still happening in the now, the moment is what we lose when we are chasing the then and later.

It’s not too late, it’s now or never,
Choose to live in the now or to look at the past,
NOW will give you learnings and a lot of opportunities,
THEN will tickle your brain and remind you of what is in the past,
NOW will give you what you didn’t get in the past,
But if you are busy looking behind, you will lose what is in the front,
For it’s not past that gives what you need but the present,
Look now, look in here, look within, look around, this is life, my dear.

Life is what happens while you chase the past or dream of the future,
Life is what you are missing because you are not in the present.
You did not choose your past but you can choose your NOW,
The choice is yours, to make the change,
Enjoy it while it lasts or look behind and complain in the end.

For life is what happens in the now my friend,
NOW is a choice, choose what you want,
Breathe in deeply and soak in the NOW,
It might be good or bad or painful but it is the truth,
You can choose to run away or hide but it won’t cease to happen,
If you live in the NOW the moment will cease soon, I promise,
Because change is life and nothing is here to stay.

There is a day after night, there is a rainbow after the rain, there is summer after winter, you like it or not,
Life is what is happening now my friend, you want it or not.